As starting failure is not entirely bad or good. Failing is bad when you fail but you refuse to learn from the failures. It is not good either because who like to fail right? But we live in real world, not a fairy tale. So the fact is fail and life is pretty much attach to each other. You are not living your life if you never felt a taste of failing.
So whoever have a dream, the feeling worried about the failure is something that like it or not will occur in your mind. But keep it in mind, everyone must have fail in something in their life. You are just another human being bound to make mistake in life. So instead of worried to much, why not just go pursuit your dream while in the same time note every mistake you do and read it from time to time. Chance is you won't ever repeat it right! People forget. So write it!
But one thing is special about failures. Yeah I call it special. When you fail, the feeling of frustrated or the life you need to go through after a fail must be rough and tough. Why human tend to fail a lot in exam, we tend to forget what other teach or tell us. But something that we experienced, we go through in our life usually stuck in our mind for a very long time.
So this is the step, that actually pretty much simple but again, people forget(count me in)!
1. Have a dream, think of your wildest dream!
- If you like to eat steaks, instead of dreaming to have so much money so you can eat it everyday, why not dream of having your own steak franchise. You can eat what you like while making money. Since you really like steaks, chance is you know many kind of steak right? Success chance is up! (Might sound like a funny idea, but I'm hungry at the time I write this..lol)
- When you have a dream that you want to achieve, be sure to have a plan. Write it, put it where you can see it everyday. See where you at from time to time. Never to fast nor to slow, try to keep in pace.
- Try to sit a little bit and think of what might be the reason for the failures. Write it and remember the feeling you get when you fail, so you won't want to repeat it.
- Don't give up yet. Keep on trying. If you learn from failures, and always want to improve, success is something that will surely come by. Believe in yourself.
In everything we do, ultimately in depends on the effort and patience. We might not remember while we still a baby trying to learn how to stand up, we keep trying even though we cry every time we fall. Some might learn it a bit faster than others, but eventually we all learn it right.
"It's always helpful to learn from your mistakes because then your mistakes seem worthwhile ." by Garry Marshall
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